1) I cannot shut off CAPTCHA though it's off in the config file, off in the preferences, and off in the MySQL settings (everywhere it appears in the database).
There's a lot of places where CAPTCHA may be used. Can you give an example of one of the places where you're having trouble? For the most part - I think with the Profile registration, all CAPTCHA is disabled, by default.
2) I cannot for the life of me figure out how to get rid of the DadaMail logo in the header. I paid for Pro and would like to customize this but web inspectors show a false location... and I can't find the original.
The image itself is in,
dada/DADA/Template/templates/img/dada_mail_logo.pngThe manual, which you do get with Pro Dada, does go into detail on how to change the global template, so you can make Dada Mail look however you'd like. You can also change the layout per-mailing list, if you'd like.
3) Password/cookie issues are going to drive me crazy, can each list get its own login cookie at some point?
How are password/cookie issues driving you crazy? I'm not sure what your second question is asking, but I don't know if it's going to be possible to be able to be logged into more than one list, from the same browser. Usually, if I want to switch quickly between lists, I'll log into a list using the Dada Mail Root Pass, and then use the widget on the upper right to switch to a different list, etc.
Overall, this install was much messier than in the past.
You're kidding, right? :)
I admit I have a different file location, but I'd think that would be par for the course given the security issues. (I chose "Upgrade" and used the unzipper program.)
What security issue are you talking about?